2) “Where is the hottest place you’ve ever had sex?”
Who doesn’t enjoy talking about their turn-ons? To be fair, not everyone enjoys it. Some women can be super shy when it comes to speaking up about what they like in bed. However, many people find that they’re able to present a more bold version of themselves online. So, you never know!
This question always reminds of that scene in “Friends” where the gang talks about the wildest places they’ve had sex .
Her answer might not be as wild as you may expect, but that doesn’t make her a prude. In fact, in another episode, Rachel proudly declares that she’s “kind of a slut!” Not everyone enjoys getting it on in public spaces, and some people have just never had the opportunity.
So, try not to judge this woman by her answer. The point is to rev up the conversation and get the two of you talking about sex.
This question? It will excite them beyond belief. It’s the kind of question that raises both the intimacy and heat levels beyond the breaking point.
Okay, you’re not talking about the two of you having sex. But by breaking what is a bit of a taboo, you’re crossing a line of intimacy and getting closer. The tension will rise and she’ll feel it. Plus, sex talk in general? It’s just okay. But talking about the hottest place we’ve ever had sex to a complete stranger online who we kinda like? It’s incredibly sexy and exciting.
Don’t be afraid to ask this question, but DO build up to it a bit. Surprisingly, you don’t need to do too much stage-setting. In fact, I recommend that you do very little.
Why? Think of it like this: You’ve known her for a little bit and you’ve shown an interest. She knows you might like her, but she’s not sure. She likes your picture, though – you’re cute. (περισσότερα…)